How do we forgive when it feels impossible? Sometime life can hurt. Sometimes things can transpire in our personal lives that we would never think of nor expect to occur. Life can present changes that can create and foster unforgiveness and resentment and cause internal frustration and a root of bitterness. If we notice the true effort in forgiveness, reality has and begins to control the emotion of the individual that allows this spirit to reside in their hearts and mind. Unforgiveness arises a hinderance in our relationship with God because He promised to measure forgiveness to us according to how we forgive others. When the disciples asked Jesus to teach them to pray, one of the lines in the model prayer was “forgive our debts as we forgive those who have trespassed against us”. Sometimes if we live out of our emotions, forgiveness will appear to be a hard task.